Question?

Here are a few questions that I'd like to ask all of my Readers!

1. As a married young woman, what type of clothes do you wear when going out on the town?

Is it appropriate to wear clothes that are revealing?

Well, you can't dress like your mom (that is if your mom dresses like an average middle aged woman) and you can't dress like you did before you settled down (... Or can you?)

This is actually a trick question. You both need to find out what works for both of you. In fact, I suggest dragging him down to the mall with you one day, and have him pick out the clothes that he feels comfortable in seeing you wear, then come to and agreement.

P.S. If he refuses to go, the next time he brings up how you dress in an argument, make sure you point out that he can come shopping with you if he wants to, and how are you suppose to know what is right to wear if he doesn't communicate.

2. Here's a famous question: How has marriage changed you?

For me, being married to my husband has completely changed the way I have been thinking. I am not so quick to react on my impulse.

The places I use to go, have become irritating. Clubs, for example, look more and more like the breeding grounds rather than a place to dance. In fact, there are times that I feel that I can actually smell the Hormones in the air.

How I dance, when I DO go out has changed. Somewhere along the way, I said good bye to BAD GIRL Pinky, who would whine and grind on my dance partner, like those girls on Sean Paul Videos. Now... Well... Not quite 'square' dancing. But extremely toned down. In fact, I think I have toned it down for so long, that I think I forgot how to Shake My Booty on the dance floor, like how I use to.

Locked off all old friends, who urged me to go back to my old lifestyle.

The sad truth is that I think I am turning in to a younger version of my mom!

3. Finally, last question: Is it wrong to flirt or fancy another?

Another tricky question. I guess it is for you to decide. But for me, my answer is NO.

True, we are married and bound by vows. But! We did not marry to become dead (as my mom would say). We where created with the ability to appreciate all forms of beauty (from mental to physical).

I don't believe that to stop, glancing at someone cute is wrong. Its when you take it to the next level... Like Adultery. (Unless, you are the type of couple that is extremely open... Then by all means explore all types of Dick and Ass and be FREE!) (LOL)

All I can say for the open relationship couples is... "Goody For You!" (In Fact, more and more younger couples are exploring the definition of an Orgy, very carefully.)